"But every Halloween night...Chelsea, Isa, and I had hopped over a headstone to ward off evil, we'd throw a pinch of salt over our shoulders as a blessing, and we'd burn a piece of sage in each of our homes to drive out negativity and promote healing for the year ahead."
I don't really consider myself a superstitious person; maybe slightly OCD, but not superstitious. So it got me thinking about all of the fun and silly things I do, and why.
I grew up in Oswego, New York near the Fort Ontario, which is legendary for its ghosts which are believed to be both Holocaust survivors and those of soldiers; it's so legendary, in fact, that it was recently featured on the Syfy network's Ghost Hunters.
As kids, we were told that one of the graves in the small cemetery next to the Fort belonged to a soldier who was a headless horseman. As an adult, it seems silly--and even a tad disrespectful--but we always hopped over its low headstone when we were there. Not sure if that was supposed to be good luck, to ward off evil, or what--but we did it.
I also held my breath as we drove by cemeteries and through tunnels. But I own a black cat and have no qualms about walking under a ladder. I've never thrown salt over my shoulder, but I'm not a fan of breaking a mirror (though I don't really believe it'll bring me seven years bad luck). As an adult I don't do most of these things any more. But I find myself unable to wear black socks to bed (bad luck), shutting every cupboard door and drawer before going to bed because it'll bring something bad into the home, knocking on wood when the situation calls, crossing myself in prayer as I leave my sleeping children's rooms, and I always wear my Lucky brand socks with four leaf clovers when I fly (even though they now have holes in the heels).
I think it boils down to this: there is a negative energy in the universe, if you will, and a positive one too. The more you focus on or believe in something, the more you will draw it into your life or notice its presence (the law of attraction). So while it's okay to have superstitions if you really believe they help--heck, a lot of traditions today are born from this place--perhaps it's best not to overly focus on them or call them to you. After all, it's hard to go through life knocking, throwing, jumping, avoiding, or closing the things around you!
I'm curious, what superstitions do you believe in and who did you learn them from?
*After publishing this original post, I also realized I do have a lot of superstitions around numbers--particularly my favorite number 3. For example, I try to get grocery carts with the number 3 in them, my address has a 3 in it, my book has three protagonists in it, I love a good trilogy, and you know, the whole holy trinity thing I grew up with. So, I guess I have a lot more superstitions than I had originally thought!